Anonymous asked:

My parents are really strict, and I’ve never really asked them about boys, but I think I really should. I’ve really been wanting to go out with this guy, he also likes me back, and is very aware of what my parents opinion on boys are. What should i ask them?

Violet responded:

Well if you’ve never asked them, then you don’t know what they’ll say. So ask them straight up that you like this guy and you want to date him.  They’re your parents, they’re not unreasonable.  If they won’t let you go out on late night dates, bargain with them.  Tell them you’ll be home by 9pm, and keep that promise.  Show them you can be trustworthy, and they’ll allow you more freedoms.


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