Anonymous asked:

The guy i like, likes me back, and he wants to go out. We have been texting for weeks and he said i was the only girl he cared about. But then i saw on instagram he ccalled this one girl flawless and then said i love you to her. Now at school he acts like nothings wrong. I dont know what to do anymore. Advice please?

Violet responded:

Is instagram the new Facebook?  Just seems like it…

A lot of the time, people act differently online.  Sometimes it’s because it’s easier to act different online.  Some people are flirts online.  Some people just sit and watch and never comment on anything.  Some people just comment on everything hoping that someone will pay attention to them.

If it really bothers you, then talk to him about it.  Don’t make it into a fight, but tell him that it does concern you, and that if he wants to be with you, he could be a little more considerate towards your feelings.

And make sure you talk to him face to face.  Don’t send this over a text message.


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