Anonymous asked:

my girlfriend of 3 months and I Are going through a rough time right now. I got switched to a different school but I still go to my old school everyday during 6th period to help and see her. But lately she’s been really upset but she won’t tell me why and then all of a sudden she starts yelling at me. And I said I can’t wait to see you or I say I miss you and she immediately changes the subject 🙁 please help me, I love her way to much to lose her, I know it’s only 3 months but I fell 4 for her.

Violet responded:

Long distance relationships are tough.  If you know somethings wrong the worst thing you can do is let it fester.  You need to confront her and figure it out.  Communication is the best thing you can do for her right now.

If it turns out for the worst, then there’s really nothing you can do about it.  Just sit her down face to face and try and talk about it.  Say that you want to help with whatever it is, and it doesn’t matter if it’s going to hurt you, as long as she’s ok.  You just want to make sure that she’s happy.

I hope everything works out for you.


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