Love is not a Substitute for Medication
This is very true.
It’s also an actual question.
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An Advice Webcomic
This is very true.
It’s also an actual question.
If you have your own question for Violet, go to eyesofviolet13.tumblr.com and ask your own question!
I love how she smiles at his outbreak.
It CAN be. For example, I have Aspergers and pretty sure I’m also codependent. I know this isn’t quite a common thing, but in my case being close to my girlfriend actually alleviates any and all depressive tendencies I may have. So yeah, in some cases it could help, but it’s not a fix-all band-aid. It helps GREATLY to be close to someone that loves and cares for you but there’s more to it then that, depending on the individual case. Ofc, if it’s too early for one partner, it shouldn’t be rushed into as that could lead to a disaster. I think you put it best when you sed “Think of all the possible outcomes before acting.”
I’ve had some experience with both sides of the issue. Once being the one that was hoping she’d go to a school near me – it didn’t happen and I lost her… even thou to this day, 5 years later I still remember my love for her. The other being me rushing to the side of my second girlfriend that lives in the UK when she asked me to (twice, actually), only to have to gather the pieces of my life after 1 month, respectively 2 months and fly all the way back to my old home. I can’t really say I regret it, but I’d be more tempered if she’d ask me a third time – as in, this time she’d have to be the one moving for me.
It really depends on who you’re with and how your relationship’s future looks like.