Anonymous asked:

I liked this boy and I told him. He said he likes me too. I’ve never had a boyfriend. So he made me this really pretty necklace for Valentine’s Day. So he’s been pushing me along really fast. He’s been holding my hand during lunch and giving me hugs. It’s been making me really uncomfortable. I feel like he’s using me so he can say he has a girlfriend, but he hasn’t asked me out. It’s gotten to the point where I don’t like him anymore. But I don’t want to feel like I led him on. What do I do?

Violet responded:

If you feel uncomfortable, tell him.  Talking to him about your feelings always helps.  Communication is vital in a relationship.

Also, if you don’t like him anymore, then just end it.  It’s better than leading him on.  Dragging it out will just make it more painful.


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