Anonymous asked:

I am good friends with this guy, Ben, but we kind of have like a rocky friendship. And my best friend doesn’t like him for this reason and she would always use to ask me why I talk to him etc. So eventually I just stopped telling her that I still talk and hang out with him. But tonight I was texting both of them and I accidentally sent a text to my best friend saying ‘Ben I miss you’. She responded saying ‘excuse me I am not Ben’. What do I say to her?! This is so awkward I just want to lie

Violet responded:

Just tell her the truth.  If she’s really your best friend, she’ll stick by you, regardless of what other friendships you have.

You’re obviously friends with this guy for a reason, and she’s going to have to respect that.


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