Anonymous asked:

So there’s this guy that doesnt know i exist, but i have a crush on. He’s an actor, a singer, he’s gorgeous, we have the same interests, he seems perfect, but the problem is I never have an excuse to talk to him since he’s older, and we don’t have any classes together. I want an excuse to talk to him in person, not over the internet. Please help! xxx

Violet responded:

Just go up and talk to him.  People like it when people take initiative in conversation. But know the difference between taking initiative and just being pushy.  Be yourself.  If you guys have the same interests, it shouldn’t be too hard to start a conversation with him.  Just try your best not to be too nervous.  Believe in yourself because when you take away all his traits, he’s just a person like you.


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