Agreed. Similar to a situation I had a year or so ago. Oddly enough she retracted her ‘I miss you’ approach shortly after I pretty much told her I’d be willing to try again as long as we heave a good long heart to heart about well… everything. I’m still vexed as to her sudden chickening out/frosting over again. Oh well, perhaps one day she’ll remember how good it was and try to improve upon the bad parts (which I’d say are no longer an issue due to her moving to UK and stuffs… ofc, new problems with that). Right. So um… +1? 🙂
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]]>Again, it depends on if there’s change. Sometimes, it’s better to just leave it be, but I always give the benefit of the doubt, so I see if they’ve changed before getting back together.
]]>I once was faced with that choice… I thought me and my first girlfriend broke up cause she couldn’t handle the distance… I am glad I didn’t get back together with her cause it was only after the refusal that I found out she was still dating her other boyfriend… ( she told me she dumped him a little while before we started dating, but didn’t tell either one of us that she had two boyfriends). With this incident, I found truth in the statement that “lovers break up for a reason. Rebuilding the relationship would just be prone to repeating the heartache.” So with this in mind, I wonder if it’s wise to get back together with one of your exes…
]]>Generally, it’s a bad idea to flirt with your ex, but if you’re both single and want to get back together with them, then I guess it’s ok?
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